Write up streamline style. Grammerly is nice but this is Roll blunt...fast convo vibe. Mainly for pleasing a woman part 1 but is for all sexes. Just perspective
Take what resonates sitch what doesn't. Try or dont. Do or don't.
It's all free will
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When you are lacking Sitting going to your date night yoga, tantra or spiritual hook up shelter. . . Pause And you end up blazing into a Tantra night. Ahhhh fun. You do breath, you are all matched up, good teacher, good flow, you end up in yab yum Legs all touching, Eyes a gaze. Breathing, Getting into starting that sweet flow of prana and clear good well guided intentions Yadda yadda yadda All good. At date night tantra or cuddle eye gaze night. Yeay. Not ever critisizing this. As I believe all should try everything, give of themselves, share of their practice, explore for what resonates with them. Etc Etc One more etc. So we know we are vibing even. What I do not sell you is that you can look to tantra for better I anticipate, sex. But if you are truly committed to an expansion and to long term fulfillment then let's not kid ourselves. Only we ourselves can do anything at this point. We have gone into instant gratification in our search for never ending comfort. We waste the discovery of the human experience by comparing, imitating and deep in illusion, so now we: have no time Are bòred (which implies something must be done) Are numb from being exposed to so much *quantity not **quality Some have a hard time reading this let alone their partner There is much to do and alot of distraction so the methods recommended or to look for, need to bring in the eternal techniques left behind by the ancients and explore as visionaries new ways New terrains Even in sex. New mentality Stronger mind as tool New stronger body Accepting that if you vibe faster you need a cleaner physical temple to house stronger energy Stronger energy Spirit Mind body spirit Stronger Better Fully functional sex Intentional living Intentional sex Why waste the energy? See what resonates during a workshop, in blogs, a tantric journey, a tantra festival, a cruise, an eco vacation. This is about you experiencing yourself. *** and by random order of chaos You can experience your infinity in another. So do it. This requires inner journeys, self love and devotion to really work. You are the Co-Pilot. Creator surrender to the flow become the flow. . . Let go of porn. It is made for instant gratification in times of struggle, healthy play not to be a daily go to ...brotha!?!&*#@! Lolz Not a multi daily. 🤣 You can counter And say that I myself recommend not suppressing sexual energy 🤔 hmmmm me admits..... word. Pause However Well you are then not suppressing it.. but now wasting much needed energy and also sending out hyper orgasm speed vibration screaming Need Dis satisfaction You have to rub one off just because. . . Why? What space is void! If so much energy, why? One part is hyper active to balance Bring to your attention to heal The part of you that is sluggish Slow I mean yes! You can! You can use the Energy but you have to do it yourself by yourself to Know Do and practice Understand Comprehend Expand Explore your partner. The Quodoushka Nagual indian gifts of wisdom give detailed examples of the different vagina and penis shapes and their trigger spots, preferences etc. If you are going to be good at using your energy, might as well have fun learning through play. Offer to just massage your partner's Vagina. If you feel safe and comfortable offer to massage with your hands, with your own genitalia (can use condoms) (although if ya dont trust the pussy. . Why...are you Fucking! The pussy? 🤣 eddie Murphy line) Ok. Massage with hands Feel Stop for a moment Feel temperature (Balls cold/hot penis) Feel rigid hips Loose hips n lips? Feel Enjoy it Do you even like pussy? So look at it with love. If you love dick then enjoy the dick first verses shoving it in your pussy and choosing to miss half the fun. Feel the mound. Play with pressure. Feel for vibes with your less dominant hand This is your Receptor. Make sexual play, physical, self healing, better and not just more fulfilling but useful. Due to the speed of life the choices among many seem to be either: Abandon everything Or speed up the journey to your death while missing your life and having numerous delusions of instant gratification OR you can Expand Use all your senses That great big sweet juicy avatar body you have Use more than 5 to 10%of your brain for heightened pleasure .....since Mind Is A Tool Ahhhhh And experience If you don't like something you don't have to explain why. Keep it simple. Loose Easy to let go Give excited massage to parts of the genitalia you never pay mind to. Men usually need more attention to their balls and prostate area, even if from outside. The perineum area. The inside of the thighs up to the pelvic area. Women can use variety. Not just In And Out Or basic moves people imitate at times for lack of just not having the courage to explore Discover your own sex. Take your time. Hold the tulips 🌷 The lips with two fingers. You can use both hands both sides both lips Or just one hand Press on the labia with those two fingers as they slide up and down. Slide them up and down varying pressure and either Explore the outer clit By circling the thumb ever so rhythmically and nicely or intense but not In And Out In Out No. Instead vary pressure Blow on the very tip of clit Put a tiny bit of ice in your mouth and let tiny drops fall on the tip of the clit. If too sensitive just hold a little water in your mouth and drop by drop pour it on the clit. Or rub in a soft frenzy and open the pussy to pour gently or in one constant stream pour it on the pussy before sucking it. Not licking it but vary. Lick at different speeds Different pressures placed by tongue Lick with a warm tongue after sipping warm kava tea or a warm beverage. Not hot. Warm. Vary in speed because remember that the only reason they put the hard pounding in porn is BECAUSE that is how many fuck when In the heat of passion. It used to be a trigger reminder of that passion that used to exist. Now people are trying to imitate the moves without the feelings or forget the feelings, The energy The passion. At least the porn star Had the passion and motivation energy..drive for the money and fame. But with a stranger or significant other you can't fake the passion part so if you are just doing the motions then just do the motions but then you don't really like sex and play and watching your partner in different levels of pleasure???? Establish as well If you like sex Parts of sex The hunt for sex Aftermath Or The whole act The adrenaline rush before it cuz you know you are going to get some The cuddle party after The release Sharing the release The physical The energy rush of the release The throbbing The coming down of the release What do you like about the release? Why? Know your vibration So you can later use that big head big cock big clit knowledge lol. Use it for more! You can explore more by extending the fingers. At the bottom of the labia let go and with the tips of the fingers rub, very lightly but quickly, the middle of the pussy while pressing it together like a tight little taco with two fingers on your other hand. So two fingers rubbing up and down quickly but lightly barely touching. . The other hand holding pussy like a tight little taco Now after a little bring two fingers to spread the pussy more and as you do Pour drop by drop from your lips warm or cold water from a melting ice cube. Exploring texture, speed, horny level. Sensitivity... Does your lover like temperature? Texture? Honey scrub or just water Scents No scents Lubes No lubes Latex sensitivity No latex Speed Is speed dependent on mood? I used to love intense hard physical sex with one person because we were both in amazing shape. I almost felt like we had to. With another I chose hard and fast because of passion then because I was just over it. Seeeeeeeeeeee???!!!! How you vibe ..again! Matters But of course. Right??? You can buy an APp with a list of techniques. I can sell you a million apps but why not use more of your brain and some cojones and enjoy the journey there. The technique was an example of how two or three small moves can help you read your partner and be a more conscious lover. Here is another ***(The clitoris is an amazingly complex structure, similar in function to the male’s glans, but surprisingly – up to four times more sensitive. The glans portion of the clitoris holds 6,000 – 8,000 sensory nerve endings, more than any other structure in the human body. This hypersensitive node has only one purpose: pleasure. Nothing exceeds its ability to receive and transmit sensations of touch, pressure or vibration. The glans are the “crown jewel” of the clitoral system! Stroke the clitoris with clockwise and counter-clockwise circles. Gently squeeze it between thumb and index fingers. Do this as a massage and not to get the receiver off. The receiver will undoubtedly become very aroused but continue to encourage her to relax and breathe. A giving, loving and patient partner can be of immeasurable value to her. If she has an orgasm, keep her breathing, and continue massaging if she wants. More orgasms may occur, each gaining in intensity. In Tantra this is called “riding the wave.”****whitelotuseast.com which unfortunately has a limited variety of providers but varies on seasons. Multiple techniques but what separates one lover from another is accepting that sex leads us to a higher understanding. An understanding That you can not use just logic mind in sex Nor should you just use heart mind Creativity needs a little of all Gut mind because you have to have the courage to allow yourself to become the lover YOU are. Imitation will leave you unhappy, insecure and limited. Exploration will require some tough swallows because what do you like about sex. All is good no answer is wrong. Not in school here We are talking sex So why you are doing it kinda influences your expansion and flow and Results. Part 2 later Dance in that a little.